Frequently Asked Questions
Where can I see you?
I have a cosy little flat in Central London, in a discreet block. My flat is close to Chelsea, Knightsbridge, Belgravia and Battersea. I have a wonderfully hot shower and clean fluffy towels if you would like to freshen up when you arrive, you will be offered a glass of filtered water and a warm smile as I welcome you into my home. I am also regularly in other parts of the UK, including the North East, Cornwall, Bristol, Liverpool, Wales and Scotland. We would also grab a hotel room anywhere in the UK that is accessible by train… shall we plan some time together to escape from the mundane, indulge in a sapiosexual platonic girlfriend experience or more naughty dalliance? If you wanted me to visit you, please read the next point.
Will you travel to me?
I generally detest rules and am a bit of a cheeky anti-authoritarian monkey… but I do love boundaries! If you prefer me to visit you I have a few boundaries that are entirely non-negotiable. Firstly, I don’t visit private residences until I have met someone numerous times at mine and genuine trust has been built. You might be a totally trustworthy and lovely person, but if I locked you in a room full of 100 snakes and told you only 1 of them was deadly poisonous, you’d be fearful of all of the snakes, wouldn’t you?! Imagine someone you love agreeing to go to the home of a stranger they have met on the internet, not knowing how safe that person was, or if there might be other people in their home waiting to overpower you? I don’t mean to sound dramatic, I simply have my head screwed on and have become very street smart after a few decades in London! So, I will happily visit you in a hotel if you are in London and if you are outside of London, I will book my own hotel and travel and you can then visit me in that hotel. I know you want to spend time with someone who is self assured, has personal agency and who delights in having a secret sassy life revolving around giving and receiving pleasure. So I know you will understand why I take both of our safety and discretion seriously, to allow our time together to be carefree and fully relaxed.
Do you offer overnights?
Although I greatly enjoy a long and luxurious date, I much prefer them to be during the daytime, for safety reasons. If you read the point above about outcalls, you will see why I prefer to host and this is also why I don’t offer many overnights, as I don’t want to be unconscious next to someone I have only just met! If you want all the benefits of an indulgently long overnight date, a full day date is just as wonderful, sharing everything from breakfast to dinner will all the delights in between, in fact it’s even better, why waste the time you have with me asleep?! If you really do want an overnight, then it will need to be in a hotel and I would request my own room at your expense, just for the sleeping part! I would be there with you all evening until we got too sleepy, then I would slip away to my own room for my slumber and return in the morning for some pre-breakfast fun!
What is your sexuality?
My sexuality is quite fluid really, I am attracted to all sorts of people and I don’t see gender or sex or body type as a barrier. I have had wonderful encounters with men, women, non binary folk, trans folk and people of various ages, shapes, sizes and ethnicities. Essentially I am attracted to the person, not just the body… although of course I really do love exploring my lovers bodies, finding out what makes their skin tingle and their breath catch…
Why do you do this?
I am a deeply compassionate person. The thought of someone feeling lonely, not feeling desired, properly heard or appreciated breaks my heart. Being a naturally generous, sensual and curious person, it feels like it’s my duty to open my heart to other people, to give them just as much freedom and pleasure as I have found in life. I have always been incredibly tactile and obsessed with human connection of all kinds. Meeting new people for some secret skylarking is thrilling and building lasting long term threads with regular kindred spirits is incredibly fulfilling and rewarding. From a practical perspective, I’m able to earn a living from something I genuinely adore. When you stop to think about it, all relationships in life are transactional in some way, but the benefit of what we create together is that it’s based on total honesty and clarity of desires and outcomes from the start. How often have you felt rejected or bored? How often have you felt dissatisfied and frustrated? Let’s indulge in each other and move forwards feeling supported and satiated.
What is an independent escort?
As an escort, I am available to arrange a date with and I offer you the most precious thing a person can offer… my time. That is what my rates pay for, nothing more and nothing less. Whatever happens during that time is something unique and magical that we create between us. As long as you are kind, thoughtful, honest and treat me with respect I’m sure we’ll have a great time together. Being an independent escort means I work alone, I am the master of my own destiny and I have absolute freedom to make all of the decisions about who I see, where and when. I wonder if we will only meet once and then live forever more as a delicious memory in each other’s minds? Or perhaps we will end up traveling through life together, seeing each other more regularly to share in uplifting, positive and perhaps at times steamy companionship. Essentially I offer the girlfriend experience… but without the nagging that you forgot to put the laundry away!
So what kind of people are you attracted to?
There is so much diversity in life to be explored and my sexuality and what I’m attracted to is fluid, abundant and limitless. If you keep an open mind, there is always something beguiling to be found, be it the way someone’s mind works, the gentle curve of the nape of their neck or the twinkle in their eye. What really catches my attention is someone who is generous, curious, kind and open to exploring themselves and others. Being able to feast on the glorious buffet of variety that having a fully inclusive approach to sexuality offers is a true gift, I wish everyone could know the joy of being queer! I have had long term monogamous relationships with men, women and non-binary people in the past and I have also had polyamorous and ethical non-monogamous relationships too.
Do you see couples, throuples etc.?
Whilst I am attracted to people of all genders, I take a slightly more cautious approach to seeing couples, throuples and other multiple person set-ups. It would be very important for me to make sure that everyone was equally enthusiastic about the booking and to understand the power dynamics and sexualities of the people involved. I won’t entertain surprise bookings for other people, this would be questionable from a consent perspective. If you want to discuss this further feel free to get in touch, let’s all talk openly and create there perfect date for everyone involved.
Do you see disabled, trans and non binary people?
Yes of course! You are so welcome, however you inhabit your body and mind, whatever your expressions and identities are, I will celebrate you and explore by your side.
Can I see you last minute or book ahead?
I would recommend planning in advance. For a good chance of me being available, generally at least one weeks notice is needed and I am happy to plan up to 3 months in advance. Sometimes I am available at short notice, so it’s always worth asking!
What is your booking process?
The first step is to have a good read through my website, then drop me a message on my contact page. Once I feel comfortable, we can swap numbers and share some voice notes or videos (nothing graphic, simply a hello!) or have a phone call to check the chemistry and trust is there. Hearing your voice before we meet is essential for me, there’s something about hearing someone’s voice that really gives you sense of who they are… of course this means you get to hear my voice as well, which I’m told is one of my appealing features. After we have spoken, we will arrange dates and timings and the excitement can build!
How will you dress for our date?
You can be assured that my attire and demeanour in public will only ever draw the correct type of attention. I tend to wear very light or no make-up. I wear glasses and my dress sense is varied. If you are looking for a femme look, I have dresses, sheer shirts with skirts etc. and if you prefer something more casual or androgynous I have business suits, baggy jeans, dungarees and an overflowing collection of figure hugging gym leggings and tops. I do have quite a few delicate black and grey tattoos. If you have particular requests regarding my attire please let me know.
I’m curious but have questions or concerns?
So let’s just have a chat! I will get back to you and we can see if we are destined to discover each other in real life…